WHOSOEVER: “God did not create you to hate you”

The Greater Kansas City region is the most compact regional ministry of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in the United States and Canada.

There are open and affirming congregations as well as places of worship where most of the members are people of color (POC). But before 2017, if you were searching for a faith community of both, you would be hard-pressed to find one.

That was until Rev. Dr. Dionne T. Boyice created WHOSOEVER: Community of F.A.I.T.H. (Finding Answers in the HEALING), a Facebook group that provides a safe space for all LGBTQ+ people, especially POC, who want to worship God.

Today, Dionne and the 1,200+ members of WHOSOEVER: Community Of F.A.I.T.H. are active online, with those living in Kansas City, KS and MO gathering in person once a month to worship and provide outreach services. These efforts are made possible with the gifts made to the Pentecost Offering, which supports leaders and communities as the Spirit calls them into being.

Seven years ago, Dionne preached at the first Black PRIDE worship service in Kansas City, MO. Following her sermon, about 25 attendees inquired about her church, citing the lack of local congregations led by an LGBTQ+ POC. Back then, Dionne didn’t have a church nor was she a pastor. But after so many people approached her, she felt called to create a community of faith where Black LGBTQ+ folks, who were suffering from religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and/or moral injury, could praise God.

“I’ve been a Baptist for most of my life. In my experience, the Black church is so vocal when they describe homosexuality as ‘the work of the devil’ or a sin, that they push Black LGBTQ+ people out the door,” shares Dionne. “But these people are still searching for and desire a relationship with God.”

So, she created WHOSOEVER, taking inspiration for its name from the John 3:16 Bible verse “For God so loved the world, that God gave the only begotten Son, so that whosoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life.” For Dionne, there are no exceptions to the scripture the way it is written – we are all loved by Christ on the cross, whosoever we are.

“The word ‘whosoever’ means anybody, any person at all,” she explains. “If we teach scripture the way it was meant to be understood, then it’s a difficult argument to make that God sent the Son to be sacrificed for only a select group of people.”

Dionne does not describe WHOSOEVER as a “gay church” or a “Black church,” even though most of its members identify as such. She doesn’t want to exclude anyone who may not identify as LGBTQ+ or Black from attending, being a part of, or worshipping at WHOSOEVER.

“Believe it or not, many POC who are LGBTQ+ don’t want to be a part of an LGBTQ+ church because they were told they would go to hell if they did,” Dionne reveals. “The people who are comfortable in their own skin have no problem with coming right on in.”

In 2018, Dionne reached out to Greater Kansas City Regional Minister Rev. Bill Rose-Heim, who introduced her to National Convocation Administrative Secretary and Associate General Minister Rev. Dr. Delesslyn Kennebrew, the Regional Minister for New and Transforming Churches at the time. This connection saw Dionne be a part of the new church cohort for the next two years.

In the meantime, her congregation connected with other marginalized communities, as well as organizations like PFLAG. WHOSOEVER participated in Kansas City’s PRIDE celebrations and conducted worship services via Zoom. Members joined virtually from Canada, the United Kingdom, Liberia, and Kenya – in fact, most of WHOSOEVER’s virtual members are located outside of Kansas City.

“We are a global ministry,” Dionne points out, “because there are so many cultures that still teach an embedded theology learned hundreds of years ago. Unfortunately, they’re not open to a broader context or theology.”

In 2020, she became ordained through the United Church of Christ and moved out east to serve a congregation in Havertown, PA. Despite the distance, Dionne maintained her Kansas City roots and built partnerships with local Disciples, including Minister of New Church Strategies Rev. Dr. Jose Martinez. For PRIDE of that year, he featured Dionne and her wife on his podcast StoryWagen, where they discussed the challenges in finding healing from a church that continues to hurt so many.

“LGBTQ+ people are growing in their faith, rejecting what they’ve been taught about their identity, and are feeling more accepted,” she says. “They’re learning that they are valued by God, no matter who they are or what they’ve done.”

Dionne returned from Pennsylvania in 2022 and the people of WHOSOEVER began to worship together in person once a month. They have gathered at other churches, Dionne’s house, a woodshop, coffee shops, and, even, a grocery store. The following year, she became a Disciple and took part in New Church Ministry’s first-ever hybrid Leadership Academy, which provides educational opportunities for faith leaders, students, and ecumenical partners, no matter their church’s life stage.

Dionne also started taking the first steps in affiliating her congregation with the denomination. 

“I came up with ‘God Did Not Create You To Hate You’ as the tagline for WHOSOEVER because I myself used to associate the church’s practice of pushing us out, with what God wanted,” reflects Dionne. “When churches do that, people stay away from church. We must learn to disconnect the human institution from the body of Christ.”

Church members currently worship in person on the campus of the Kansas City Kansas Community College. In June, they will finally have their own space.

Outside of worship, the people of WHOSOEVER engage in community service. Once a month, they serve free hot soup to houseless neighbors, and they’ve even been able to assist others with their finances and rent.

As for the future and the well-being of LGBTQ+ POC, Dionne believes that the younger generation is “our saving grace.”

“They won’t attend churches that refuse to welcome their friends and family just because they are LGBTQ, or drink, or have children out of wedlock,” she concludes. “They are really trying to live out the answer to, ‘what would Jesus do?’”

To ensure that congregations such as WHOSOEVER can continue to provide its vital services to LGBTQ+ folks, POC, and other marginalized communities, participate in this year’s Pentecost Offering. Half of the gifts made on Sundays, May 12 and 19 stay in the region in which they’re collected to support local emerging and affiliating faith communities. The other half goes to New Church Ministry to support events like Leadership Academy, as well as coaching for new church leaders, educational webinars, and much more.

Leadership Academy: Changing the architecture of the church through DisciplesNEXT

KANSAS CITY, MO – Iconic North American architect Frank Lloyd Wright’s “church of the future” proved a fitting setting to introduce DisciplesNEXT, a new framework for church growth in a pandemic-informed ministry context.

The three-day Leadership Academy, a hybrid event held at Kansas City, MO’s historic Community Christian Church in late October, drew more than 50 participants, including clergy, laity, and regional ministry leaders, with designs on starting, growing, or reimagining congregational ministry for today’s context. The event was led by the New Church Ministry team of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in the United States and Canada.

Victor Perez shares his thoughts about Leadership Academy on Instagram.

Clergy and laity gathered online and in person to explore DisciplesNEXT’s core competencies: contemplative action, prophetic advocacy, and faith-rooted organizing to expand the Disciples witness. The new framework claims the best of the Disciples’ identity and history as a “movement for wholeness” even as it seeks to counter the church’s historic tendency to colonize as a means of growth. 

“I’m taking a lot of tools with me, including not only how to be a leader inside my congregation, but in my community,” said Victor Perez, a member of Casa de Refugio Christian Church in Covina, CA. “Leadership Academy is taking us outside of our comfort zone, outside of the four walls of our church.”

In his opening remarks to the gathering, Rev. Dr. Jose Martinez, Minister of New Church Strategies, made the point that “we are all new church” as we learn anew to be the church in a pandemic-informed context. DisciplesNEXT is a framework that supports congregations, regardless of their stage in the church lifecycle.

Rev. Dr. Jose Martinez discusses DisciplesNEXT.

Rev. Chad Delaney, Senior Minister of Mantua Center Christian Church in Mantua, OH, introduced participants to NCM’s coaching service. As an NCM coach, Rev. Chad shared what role he and his colleagues play in the first few years of a new church leader’s ministry. Coaches can be confused as consultants or therapists, but he pointed to the distinction.

“Therapists are like archeologists; they dig deep into the history of how we understand ourselves. Coaches are like architects – present- and future-focused,” he explained.

For Rev. Jose the success of emerging congregations depends on coaching — and coaching depends on trusting relationships. Having coaches on-site to meet participants provided a deeper familiarity with the value of this service, he said.

Rev. Brian Frederick-Gray delivers his keynote address.

Participants also heard from keynote speaker Rev. Brian Frederick-Gray, Director for Justice and Advocacy Ministry with Disciples Home Missions, who delved into the meaning of embodied and resilient faith. Workshops by Disciples Church Extension Fund staff covered topics ranging from marketing to building needs and opportunities.

Rev. Wesley King, NCM’s Program Coordinator, plays the organ at IBCC.

On the third day of the event, Independence Boulevard Christian Church (IBCC), welcomed a site visit to share their journey as a church transformation in an urban setting. The small faith community uses its aging facilities for multiple outreach ministries addressing issues affecting the neighborhood, including food insecurity, lack of access to medical care, and homelessness. 

Between Rev. Chad’s presentation and the tour of IBCC, participants found fellowship amongst their peers in various cohorts, which were designed for core teams and their leaders at different stages of the church launch process.

Leadership Academy participants gather outside of IBCC.

“It’s always energizing to be with people who share similar vision and call into a church community’s setting,” shared returning participant Rev. Tiffany DeTienne, Community Engagement Specialist at Church World Service.

In concluding the event, Rev. Dr. Jose reminded participants that the model for Jesus’ ministry “was never meant to be just pastors leading congregations.”

Rev. Bill Rose-Heim, Regional Minister for the Kansas City region, sings at the opening worship service.

“Christ is our pastor. We are the laity. We are helping each other become empowered to lead for the common good,” he said. “The Spirit moves us forward in this.”

DisciplesNEXT is scheduled to be the topic of discussion in the December 6 IMPACT episode.